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I just want to wish everyone a happy new year and that I'm back after my computer crashed. And the unfortunately breaking up with my gf of one year on Christmas day, it was her idea not mine. The whole "I need a friend, not a bf" routine. Its hard to believe that my last appearance on the board was December 8th. I want to wish my deepest sympathy to the board member "Hells" family. I'm glad to be back. Thank you :D

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Real nice of her. Not the kind of friend I'd want. I mean, couldn't she wait until the day after Christmas. :rolleyes: Did she buy you a present? Did you have one for her and did you take it back? :P Eh screw her. I don't me screw her, I mean SCREW HER! :lol: You now what I mean. B ) Welcome back. :hi:

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welcome back.. sorry about your christmas.. 2005 will bring much happiness :)

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Hey! Good to "see" you back. Sorry to hear about your breakup but it just means there's someone better right around the corner.

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Real nice of her. Not the kind of friend I'd want. I mean, couldn't she wait until the day after Christmas.  :rolleyes:  Did she buy you a present? Did you have one for her and did you take it back?  :P  Eh screw her. I don't me screw her, I mean SCREW HER!  :lol: You now what I mean.  B )  Welcome back. :hi:

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I wish she didnt accept my christmas gift :argh: but then again she is not going on vacation with me :uni::P

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"A pen, I gave her my heart and she gave me a pen" - "Say Anything" :lol:

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"A pen, I gave her my heart and she gave me a pen"  - "Say Anything"  :lol:

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Couldnt had said it any better myself :P

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was at least a nifty four color pen ?? :P

(and yes I've seen the movie.. hell I went to see it on my infamous first date *eep* :ph34r: )

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I just want to wish everyone a happy new year and that I'm back after my computer crashed. And the unfortunately breaking up with my gf of one year on Christmas day, it was her idea not mine. The whole "I need a friend, not a bf" routine. Its hard to believe that my last appearance on the board was December 8th. I want to wish my deepest sympathy to the board member "Hells" family. I'm glad to be back. Thank you  :D

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Wow man, I had the same situation, I know how you feel.... it wasnt on Christmas but it will be a year in March... I dont take that, "I wanna be friends" bullsh!t... To me that means she wants to sleep around but still be friends, Im not stupid and wont be played...

Welcome back.

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I can tell you one thing is for sure, she is NOT going to go on vacation with me this year. I ordered her the travel guide for 05 because its the closest to North Carolina she is going to be this year :uni::P

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Thankfully without her I can think about my career and future. I think she was pissed because I didnt ask her to get engaged. Oh Well!

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after a year?!? engage?!? my gf has recently started talking about it after 5 years. That I can understand, but 1 year?

good grief!

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it's all about age there... the first one was 7 years :argh::argh:

but as you get older the timeframe gets shortened and sped up.....

... or so I'm lead to believe :P

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ah huh... so because me and Jen started dating our Sophmore year of High School, it's normal to not get engaged for a while, but when you are in your late 20's early 30's, and older, the timeframe till engagement shortens exponentially. Makes sense, I guess...

ONe other thing is if you know the person for long before then and/or are friends with the person before you start "dating"

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after a year?!? engage?!?  my gf has recently started talking about it after 5 years.  That I can understand, but 1 year?

good grief!

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I still want to live my life a little, ya know. Not being engaged after a short period of time.

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ah huh... so because me and Jen started dating our Sophmore year of High School, it's normal to not get engaged for a while, but when you are in your late 20's early 30's, and older, the timeframe till engagement shortens exponentially.  Makes sense, I guess...

ONe other thing is if you know the person for long before then and/or are friends with the person before you start "dating"

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SHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

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One other thing is if you know the person for long before then and/or are friends with the person before you start "dating"

cause THAT'S worked so well for me :P

(I know i'm being bitter... I do it well !!)

at least I won't be wasting money on any stupid valentine's day gift !!! :clap: (I object to any holiday that makes me spend money to show someone how I feel about them every freaking day as is :P)

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"When you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want the rest of your life to start right now."

Billy Crystal as Harry in When Harry Met Sally

Another great line is, "I'll have whatever she had." :rofl: From the great scene in the diner.

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