ROCK!
Annoying phone conversations are, well, annoying, too.
CR1976 - You hit the nail right on the head. I had a similar conversation with my mother the other day. My cousin had brought all 9000 of her kids over to visit our grandmother (their great-grandmother), they are the biggest brats in the world. They tear the house apart, break things, beat up on each other, even attacked an animal...what did my cousin do? Absolutely nothing. Better yet, after tearing the house apart, they just left it like that -- didn't even put anything back where it was. I came home and saw the war zone, I was livid. If I had done any of that as a kid, my mother would have set me straight real quick. Granted, I'd never hit a cat, but if I made a big mess at someone else's house (which I never would have done, either), my mother would have made me clean it up.
Parents need to actually parent their kids. There are some wonderful kids out there, but those lil stinkers need to be taught some lessons reeeeaaal quick.