Do you actually know anyone who has wrapped their car around a pole? My neighbor did, he was 16 years old, his dad never recovered and is an alcoholic now. Do you actually know anyone that has been killed in a car accident on Christmas morning? 3 of my closest friends have, by a drunk driver going the wrong way on the highway. Before you go and say something stupid like that, think about who you're talking to and have some humanity. I'm sorry about your friend; no one should get raped, but what you said was way out of line. On the fact that it's impossible for professional athletes to rape someone, I know a lot about the Big Ben situation; my uncle coaches for the Steelers. I've never defended Ben, because I've met him and he's a jerk. He may have did it, we'll never know. These people are humans as well and can get accused of anything, just like the rest of us; they are just more high profiled. In the court of public opinion, Doughty, Ben, Kobe, Lawrence Taylor and every other famous athlete/celebrity accused of sexual assault is a sex offender/rapist. Their life will never be the same, whether they did it or not.