That’s the thing people without kids can never understand. My wife and I were never anxious to have a child. Her best friend wanted one from the second she got married and they tried for years, before she was diagnosed with endometriosis and was told it was next to impossible.
In light of that, we just reached a day where we decided if we were ever going to do it, it was the right time. We decided to just end the birth control and let whatever happens happen. What happened happened within a week.
I’ve never looked back and couldn’t imagine not being a parent now.
Postscript: my wife’s friend scheduled a complicated and painful surgery to try to permit her to get pregnant. During the pre-op work up she has to take a pregnancy test, and wouldn’t you know it, it was positive. She cancelled the surgery and decided one child was enough.
Our kids were born a month apart and are still best friends.